9-11 memories from the child of Holocaust survivors
Posted by Rose Rosen in Family, Musings
Rose Rosen recounts her memories of 9-11 as the child of Holocaust survivors.
As the anniversary of September 11 approaches, I am flooded with memories of the events. As the child of Holocaust survivors, I have a very different reaction to tragedy and possible harm to my family. I go into survivor mode immediately. I was working in Tarpon Springs, Florida on September 11 when I heard what had happened. I immediately called my husband and gave him a list of things to do which included buying a lot of non-perishable foods and getting our daughter from school no matter what the school said. It was clear to me that this could be the start of a war and I must act to save our family.
To me, this was a normal reaction. Later I found out that my actions were a bit extreme.
I remember clearly the days after the tragedy. It was so quiet here with no planes and the impending hurricanes. I listened to the radio a lot. There was one story from New York that particularly struck me. It was about the people looking for their loved ones. They posted signs and walked the streets and visited the hospitals all in an effort to find their missing friends and relatives. Cell phones were down; the Internet and landlines were not working, so the people took to the streets in their frantic search for the missing.
This reminded me of the time after WWII when victims were trying to reconnect with their families. During that time, the embassies worked to help families reunite. It was because of that effort that my parents met each other. My mother spent the years after the war in Sweden and my father was in Marseilles. They coincidentally had the same last name, so the embassy connected them. After corresponding they found out that they were not related, but continued to correspond for the next two years. My mother decided to travel to Israel where she had one surviving member of her family…a first cousin. On her way, she decided to meet the man from Marseilles who shared her last name.
Five days after she got off the train in Marseilles, she was married to my father.
So I understand the pursuit of those lost.
And that is one more reason that I collect the names of those who perished in the Shoah.
The Shoah Victims’ Names Recovery Project is an international project from Yad Vashem that works on collecting the names of those people who died in the Holocaust. Locally, the Florida Holocaust Museum, 727 820 0100, is spearheading the project. All other Jewish organizations have come on board. If you have names to give, please contact the museum or me.
For more information, call me at 813 932 9932 or email at castingbyroserosen@gmail.com.
Rose Rosen is a busy casting director with her roots in journalism. Having been brought up with both parents surviving the Holocaust, Rose has a unique take on life. Serving as Central Florida Coordinator of the Yad Vashem Holocaust Names Recovery Project suits her need for filling in the gaps of her past as well as helping others find theirs. When not casting, Rose is a life coach for actors.




Very touching, Rose. I had never known your parents’ story about how they met and loved reading it here.
Thanks, LJ. It is really fabulous to be able to share these important historical stories publically.
Rose,
It occurred to me today (9/11) while listening to the names of each victim being carefully read, that what makes this country so special is that each individual is considered just that – a unique person with special qualities that can never be replaced. And this is just another reason while the Shoah names project which seeks to collect the name of every individual murdered in the Holocaust is so important, as you so clearly remind us here.
Debbie
Thanks Debbie! I hope anyone reading this who knows names of those who were murdered in the Shoah will call us and give us their names. It is so important!
Dear rose,
Your words were quite touching and I am grateful to you for sharing your experience and reaction. It makes knowing you that much more precious.
Dear Iris,
Please help us spread the word.
I am touched that you were touched
Thanks for reading.
Well written, I can understand your reaction to 9/11.
You are an impressive young lady.
B
Dear Barbara,
I LOVE being called a young lady.
Rose,
Your dedication to this cause is inspiring. You are willness to put
your fellings and personal story out there to help others is a
wonderful and selfless endeavour.
The story of your parents meeting does indeed bear a strong
resemblance to those of 911. Your ability to recognize these
similarities and bring them to others attention in a such a well
written manner is a unique gift.
I am sure those who read it will be inspired to help add to the 4 million names.
Rose, I am so grateful for all the time you have put into this important project to help all victims be remembered. Your story reminds us of the severe impact that the Holocaust can have on the sons and daughters of Holocaust Survivors. Indeed, intergenerational transmission of trauma is very real. By the way, my mother was also sent to Sweden after liberation. She was only 15 at the time and therefore didn’t get married till she came to the U.S. some years later and met my father. I always wonder about these marriages that were formed under such crazy circumstances. Speaking for my own parents, they had no business getting married. Then again, guess I wouldn’t be here if they hadn’t gotten together.
Dear Bonnie,
Crazy how the stories of our parents are so similar. I appreciate your support in all that you do for the Generations After Group here in Tampa/St Pete and the mission of spreading the legacy of the Holocaust in general. If there are any children or grandchildren of survivors out there that do not know of the Generations After Group, please feel free to email me and I will connect you with Bonnie. She produces a fantastic newsletter!